Many adoptees live with the sense of betrayal all their lives and are very sensistive to what they may perceive as further betrayal. it is something we live with all our lives along with the feelings of isolation, which society tried to impose on us, rejection especially if a true parent decides they cannot meet. An adoptees nose is carefully attuned to any signs that may be interpreted as a betrayal of you loyalty, rust and love.
Over the year i have often felt betrayed, Betrayed by my a/parents who did not believe i could handle the truth, betrayed by a society that allowed me to be trade as a commodity. these are just few. and rejection is also part of this betrayal. My mother rejected meeting me twice and as a result, I never felt i was loved or wanted by my true family.
In recent times i have felt betrayed by groups that once, purported to support me, condemning me without right of reply so they can continue their goals of spreading hate and destruction through the adoptee community They freely let untruth and lies to be spread without checking their authenticity.
but what is more disappointing is when people whom i call friends and whom i love agree with these accusations without checking with me first. This climate of hate within the adoption community must cease if all affected want to realise their goals. and for those who support the hate monger's, i say please think of what you are doing and is it worth the costs